Poetry Play
I grew up with wordplay. My mum used to sing around the house, often changing the lyrics for something funny, or just good old nonsense. At 87 she still uses lots of the ‘family language’ created over the years. My children now adore this idea and often add a new word into the family dictionary. Words like bananoo, sockles, crumpigs (banana, socks, crumpets). I’ll be honest – I made these up, because I don’t want to share our real ones. They’re such a precious part of our family folklore, especially as my mother gets older, and the family is spread across the miles. These playful words unite us and never fail to make us smile.
Children naturally play with words; we know that toddlers often ‘invent’ new words when they can’t quite wrap their mouths around the actual word. Think ‘lello’ for yellow, or ‘gaga’ for Granny. Imaginative play is encouraged in children, and teddies or fictional worlds might be given wonderfully creative names. And then, gradually, things change; we begin to use ‘real’, ‘sensible’, ‘actual’ words for things, and school decides rights and wrongs. There is less creative play, and we’re expected to grow up. I think we’ve all got the need to play with words, regardless of age – you show me a dog or cat owner who doesn’t have at least five different variations on their pet’s name!


